[原创]一个父亲的骄傲

雨阳

<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">6</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">月下旬，上小学一年级的儿子期末考试结束了，等待着放假。天天在家吃、玩、看电视，小肚子都鼓了出来。这样可不行，我和太太都在想：在假期里该安排孩子做些什么？</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">去年暑假，儿子和幼儿园大班伙伴一道参加了游泳学习班。但中途由于生病，缺勤没能学会，别的小朋友都学会了，对此我一直耿耿于怀。本着锻炼的目的，我<personname wst="on" productid="和">和</personname>太太都想让儿子学会游泳。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">可是儿子胆小，对于教练简单甚至有些粗暴的学习方法害怕，总是担心自己做不好动作挨批，不愿学。太太鼓励他：这是初级班，都是小朋友，大家都不会，可你去年已学习了一半，你是最棒的，你一定能学会！姥姥、姥爷也鼓励他，可他就是不听，还向他们承诺明年学。太太等人都不坚持了，只有我还在坚持，于是儿子每天就在我下班后磨叨：爸爸，今年我不想学，明年再学吧。更可气的是太太还附和。我真急了，大骂一声：“你滚蛋！你就应该学会游泳。”所有人都不出声了，只有儿子低声哭着，咬着牙</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">在客厅里来回走着。我心里非常的撮火，既为儿子的胆小，也为作为爸爸的威严无用，更为出现这种情况，我也只能妥协的结局。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">第二天下班回家，却见儿子在收拾游泳用品。孩子姥姥说：今天上学校，正式放假了，老师要求假期必期学习一种体育项目，儿子只好同意参加游泳班了。看来还是老师说话管用，咱们的教育内容也改进多了，挺好。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">游泳班从</span><chsdate wst="on" year="2006" month="7" day="10" islunardate="False" isrocdate="False"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">7</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">月</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">10</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">日</span></chsdate><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">（周一）开始，每天一个半小时，一周六节课，共上</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">12</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">节课，包学会蛙泳。</span><chsdate wst="on" year="2006" month="7" day="10" islunardate="False" isrocdate="False"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">7</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">月</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">10</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">日</span></chsdate><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">是今年小学生放假的第一天，据说所有的游泳馆暑期学习班都从这一天开课，并且所有班次全部爆满。孩子们的幸福暑假生活开始了。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">儿子的上课时间是上午</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">10</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">：</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">00</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">到</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">11</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">：</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">30</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">，孩子姥姥负责接送和陪同。下了课，儿子也饿了，等不及做饭，因此直接到旁边吉野家吃一份牛肉饭，每天如此，成本不低。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">儿子对游泳班第一周的学习内容熟悉，掌握也较好，每天都能赢得教练的表扬，回家后也很认真的完成课后练习。在床上练习几百次的收、翻、蹬、夹，在面盆中练习憋气。每天练完后总是背心、短裤全部湿透，洗漱间地面全湿。看着这，总觉得当初我自学游泳的时候没这么费劲。当然，我学会游泳时已经工作了。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">相对轻松的第一周课程很快结束了，儿子这时已能背着浮板游来游去了。去年的学习就到这个程度，后来任凭我怎么威逼利诱，儿子也不敢脱板。对下一周的课程，儿子也感受到了压力，对我说：“爸爸，教练说了，下周四所有人必须脱板，你带我练练吧。”</span><font face="Times New Roman">
                </font><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">儿子能主动要求游泳，我很高兴，在周日带他到清华游泳馆练习。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">清华游泳馆是个国际标准比赛馆，一侧是跳台和跳水池，一侧是标准比赛池。在标准池中一分为二，分为深水池和浅水池。浅水池是在深水中垫了一层支架，形成深</span><chmetcnv wst="on" unitname="米" sourcevalue="1.2" hasspace="False" negative="False" numbertype="1" tcsc="0"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">1.2</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">米</span></chmetcnv><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">至</span><chmetcnv wst="on" unitname="米" sourcevalue="1.4" hasspace="False" negative="False" numbertype="1" tcsc="0"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">1.4</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">米</span></chmetcnv><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">的水域。这个深度对于</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">15</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">岁以上的人来说是浅水，可对于</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">10</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">岁以下的孩子来说还是深水。这总是有许多的</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">5-7</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">的小孩子背着浮板在水中玩耍，深浅对于这些快乐的孩子无足轻重，而浮板、家长的陪同以及救生员令这一切毫无危险。在清华游泳馆中，随时可见优美的跳水、专业的长游和快乐的嘻戏。</span></p><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">我认为在分泳道的深水中游泳是最轻松的，对于不会游泳的人学习游泳更应如此。浅水池中也有两条标准宽度的泳道，众多的孩子们是不喜欢在这里玩的，可儿子正在学习游泳，在这样的环境中游起来很舒服。这一天游泳完，儿子高兴的说：“这里游泳比在游泳班里好，明天还来。”回家后，太太问我儿子的水平怎么样，我觉得与去年比，有进步，但没有质的变化。</span>

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<p>写的好，感人，舐犊情深！父子的情意流露于字里行间......</p>

雨阳

<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">周一下班，我早早到家，一进家门儿子就催我带他去游泳。还是到清华游泳馆，看着儿子高兴的游泳，我鼓励他试着脱板，可儿子还是有些怕，坚持在周四课上和同学们一起脱板。在儿子的坚持下，周二还要来清华游泳，并且天天要来，一直到周五。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">每天下班后，我从永丰的单位回到亚运村的家，吃完晚饭再带儿子到清华游泳。游泳时，前三分之二的时间是我在岸上监督儿子游泳，后三分之一时间下水在一条泳道里各游各的。儿子的劲头挡也挡不住了，上午学习班游泳一个半小时加中午的牛肉饭，下午和小朋友在院里骑自行车，晚饭后清华游泳一个半小时，回来后再加餐，这成了标准的生活模式。刚</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">10</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">天时间，儿子的小将军肚没了。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">周二晚游了一半时间，儿子说：“爸爸，试试不要板了。”我高兴的鼓励他：“别害怕，你没问题，注意动作跟有板时一样。”“明白！”这时的儿子少有的配合和自信。的确是，脱板后照样轻松游来游去。这时，已不是技术问题，完全是心理问题。提前二天达到教练的游泳要求，儿子很高兴，回家后刚进家门，就迫不及待的向大家宣布了。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">周三晚到了游泳馆，不用再系背板，儿子直接下水游了起来。中间遇到稍有情况，就赶紧扒着水线，在水中算是基本上能自己了。在回来的路上，我告诉他，明晚有事，不能来游泳，儿子勉强答应了。但强调，周六的最后一课是公开课，周五晚上一定要来。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">周四晚，事情取消了。刚进家门，儿子高兴而又迫不及待的说：“爸爸，赶紧吃饭，吃完饭去游泳。”这晚的游泳感觉儿子心理又放松了一些，但游一段距离仍要扶水线。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">周五单位有事，紧赶慢赶</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">7</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">点钟才下班，在半路上手机响，我感觉是我儿子的电话。一接果然是他，焦急的催促我早点带他去游泳。带着儿子去游泳馆的路上，他很郑重的问我：“爸爸，脱板算会游泳了吗？”“不算，只有取得深水合格证才算。”“怎么取得深水合格证呢？”“连续游</span><chmetcnv wst="on" unitname="米" sourcevalue="200" hasspace="False" negative="False" numbertype="1" tcsc="0"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">200</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">米</span></chmetcnv><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">，中途哪里也不扶。”</span><font face="Times New Roman">
                </font><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">“噢。”儿子很认真地听着。“你们学习班结束时要求测深水合格证吗？”“不要求。”</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">儿子下水准备游，我告诉他，试着哪里也不扶游</span><chmetcnv wst="on" unitname="米" sourcevalue="200" hasspace="False" negative="False" numbertype="1" tcsc="0"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">200</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">米</span></chmetcnv><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">，他兴奋地答应了。儿子认真地游着，不但不扶水线，转头时连墙都不碰了。由于年龄小，游泳速度较慢，但感觉并不吃力。在儿子游泳的同时，旁边水道一个小伙子在测深水合格证，游的很一般，一圈下来还要扶着墙休息。这种情况鼓励了我，儿子游完</span><chmetcnv wst="on" unitname="米" sourcevalue="200" hasspace="False" negative="False" numbertype="1" tcsc="0"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">200</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">米</span></chmetcnv><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">，我鼓励他测深水合格证，他很高兴的答应了，看的出来，对于能独立游完</span><chmetcnv wst="on" unitname="米" sourcevalue="200" hasspace="False" negative="False" numbertype="1" tcsc="0"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">200</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">米</span></chmetcnv><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">，他也很兴奋。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">测试开始了，测试教练见他年龄小，怕有危险，让我陪他一起游。于是我也下了水，在旁边泳道一边游一边观察，见儿子动作基本正确，四肢划水的频率也很均匀，只是头有些高，问题不大。我放心了，让孩子自己游。游完</span><chmetcnv wst="on" unitname="米" sourcevalue="200" hasspace="False" negative="False" numbertype="1" tcsc="0"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">200</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">米</span></chmetcnv><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">，教练说：“举着手，踩踩水。”我一听吃了一惊，这可没教过呀。可儿子并不惊慌，举着手，立在水中轻松的踩着水，头部高高的露在水上面。</span><font face="Times New Roman">
                </font><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">“行了，上来吧。”教练发话了。一下子，我心中满是事情完结后的轻松感和成就感。儿子的游泳终于从量的积累到了质的飞跃，一切的辛苦感觉没有白费。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">刚推开家门，儿子就欢快的把考下深水合格证的消息告诉了家里人。太太、岳父、岳母每个人嘴里都吃惊地“啊，啊”着，从各个房间奔了出来。我笑眯眯的看着他们，今晚的进步同样也令我吃惊。太太似乎看出我有点骄傲，总结着：儿子学会游泳是所有人的功劳，爸爸的辛苦，妈妈的鼓励，姥姥、姥爷的后勤保障，还有老师的要求。顺带着还算了一下：两周内上</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">12</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">次游泳课，清华游泳</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">6</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">次，牛肉饭</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">12</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">顿，每晚还有加餐。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">“明天儿子游泳课结业，家长观摩，你去吗？”“你们去吧，我明天去钓鱼！”</span></p>